About Bex

Bex Caputo is a sex educator, blogger, speaker, podcaster, and professional pervert. He’s been a proud and undeniable kinkster ever since he insisted on being served his meals in a dog bowl at the age of 8. He’s a Virgo, a Hufflepuff, and a transmasc queerdo who grew up to be the pop punk skater boy he had a crush on in high school.

He’s also a huge nerd with ADHD, so every new interest he discovers comes with a strong desire to learn everything about it that he possibly can. As you’ve probably guessed, sex and kink were two of his earliest fascinations–and the more he learned about them, the more apparent it became that the rest of the world still had a lot to learn, too. 

Enter BexTalksSex.com—initially established in 2012 as a sex toy review site, it’s grown and expanded over time to focus more on sex education and personal essays. Along the way Bex met sex blogger and educator Kate Sloan, and in Fall 2016 they became the hosts of The Dildorks, a podcast where they discuss sex, dating, and masturbating. By 2018, he’d begun speaking at sex and kink conferences like Playground Conference, Sex Down South, and Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit. He’s currently in the process of making his most popular workshops available as online classes that can be downloaded and watched anywhere!

Bex has appeared as a BDSM educator on True Life: I Need Danger Sex, guested on The Bed Post Podcast, Sex Gets Real, and Sex City Radio, is a guest contributor for Swingtowns and Glamour, and was ranked as one of Kinkly’s Top 100 Sex Bloggers from 2013-2018.

“Watching Bex grow as a writer and educator has been such a tremendous joy. Gifted with that ideal combination of compassion, curiosity, courage, intelligence, and humor, they are an authentic and accessible educator who speaks from the heart as well as the mind. “

– JoEllen Notte

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