I Could Write It Better Than You’ve Ever Felt It

 There are a million reasons to love sexting, not least of which being the fact that you can be sexy without changing out of your pajama pants. As a person who was in a long distance relationship for quite a while, a huge portion of the sex I was having …

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5 Easy Ways to Give a Blowjob with a Condom

Condom Blowjobs

Despite what your high school sex ed teacher may have taught you, condoms are for a lot more than just bananas and intercourse. Infections don’t care, and can grow just as happily in the mouth or throat as they can in a vagina or anus, any moist mucus membrane is …

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5 Easy Ways to Level Up Your Nudes

Last year I attended an amazing sexting workshop with Tina Horn in promotion for her new book. I waited excitedly through the sections on dirty talk, where I was inspired to add language to my Yes/No/Maybe List, because I was already confident in my sexting storytelling skills, what I wanted …

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Six Sexting Slip-Ups and What To Do Instead

Sexting

I really love sexting. From exploring in internet chat rooms as a teenager to my current LDR, I think it’s probably safe to say that the majority of my sexual experiences have been digital. In all of my digital dalliances, I’ve seen how sexting can go very right (shout out …

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Seven SFW Saucy Snaps to Send Your Sweetie

Saucy Snaps

My Sir lives more than 12k miles away from me, so, as you might imagine, sexting is a pretty vital part of our relationship. That said, the cocktail of gender dysphoria and insecurities brewing in my brain mean I’m not always in the right headspace to send him nudes every time …

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Creating Your Safer Sex Kit

Safer Sex Kit

If you are a person who is sexually active it is a good idea to consider creating a safer sex1 kit. A safer sex kit is a portable kit that should be easily accessible to you whenever you are in a situation that may become sexual. Ideally it would be …

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Back to Basics: Kegel Exercises

You may have first heard of Kegel exercises during pregnancy when your doctor instructed you to start doing them, or you may have read about them in a sex-ed book. You might have heard about Ben Wa balls for the first time when you were reading the infamous 50 Shades …

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